June 2006

Planes, Boats, and Automobiles




Alyssa and Kevin

Originally uploaded by Jason Dufair.

We went to Maryland this weekend to visit my mom and stepdad and they took us on the “Kiddie Kruize”, where boaters and families got together and played games and swam at the beach and generally enjoyed themselves. Highlights included:

  • Alyssa captaining the $1.1 million, 56 foot Cruisers 560 Express luxury yacht, holding it steady at full throttle
  • Emma sleeping in her porta-crib in the walk-in closet of the aft stateroom
  • My mom’s crab dip
  • Kids making kites (and Ian’s actually flying!)
  • Playing guitar on the swim deck after kids were in bed
  • Swimming on the Herrington Harbour beach - warm water & seaweed!
  • Chilling out, watching a Simon and Garfunkel DVD with my mom
  • Stunningly good percolator coffee over breakfast, surrounded by kids on Father’s Day morning
  • Learning to make the perfect Gin & Tonic
  • Anna feeling good and having a fun time


Family

Comments (0)

Permalink

Solanales Solanaceae

Otherwise known as Nightshade. My band from high school. This was our debut at The Thirsty Whale, the now-defunct rock club in River Grove, IL - known for hosting Zebra and other great metal bands. I got an email from my good old bud Bear Wolf (now propagandapoet in Rockford, IL), and decided to dig up some old video and post it. I have several others (plus more of this gig), including our debut at the Palatine High School Battle of the Bands, that I’ll dribble out over the next few months to keep you hanging worse than you did when you wondered Who Shot J.R.

Updated: I’m the one with the funny beret

Music
Personal

Comments (1)

Permalink

Chicago Weather

Ian likes to look at the Chicago Streetfinder we keep in our car.  Little did we know it has up-to-the-minute weather forecasts in it, but only when he’s looking through it.  And, amazingly, the forecasts usually call for tornadoes, hurricanes, floods, etc.

Family

Comments (0)

Permalink

Anna Update #12

It’s been quite a long time since we’ve updated anyone on how Anna’s doing, so I thought I’d put up a post for whomever might still be checking. Anna went on a medication called Tarceva in December. It’s a drug that’s designed not to eliminate the cancer she already has (like traditional chemotherapy tries to do), but to prevent the disease from progressing. There’s only a certain chance it will work with a given patient and it has to do with whether the person has a certain gene mutation. Thankfully, it’s working for Anna. In fact, it’s working remarkably well. Anna probably has 80 or 90 percent of her pre-cancer energy level and is putting weight back on and getting her awesome bushy red hair back. She still has a nasty cough that kicks in at least once a day, unfortunately, but it’s much better than it was a year ago. The cancer on her right thigh (which was eliminated last summer via traditional chemotherapy) is still gone. The tumor in her left lung is still large and obstructing the entire airway into the lung. The side effects of Tarceva are pretty mild. It causes fairly significant rash and acne on Anna’s face and neck. It also causes occasional gastrointestinal problems. But Anna is living with those side effects pretty well and has various creams and medications to help lessen the side effects.

The downside is that the cancer almost always builds up a tolerance to Tarceva and then progresses. At that point there probably aren’t any good options. The doctors usually resort back to traditional chemo to buy a bit more time. Some people have been on Tarceva for years, but for most people, it works for 9-12 months or so (33% survival rate at 12 months). Since Anna was in such excellent health prior to her cancer diagnosis, we’re hopeful that she’ll be on the long end of this. There are also currently trials underway for a drug that works on a similar mechanism to Tarceva’s, but is “irreversible” (i.e. can hold off progression of the disease indefinitely).

Anna did have a CAT scan about a month ago that had us very scared. It indicated the cancer was already progressing again, but after a consult with her extremely competent Dr. Einhorn, we were assured that the original interpretation of the scan was in error and that the cancer was not progressing yet.

So we’re living in what I’ve come to call a “renaissance of normalcy.” The kids go about their lives normally - having playdates and sleepovers and school and camps. Anna and I are living pretty normally too. Anna is still on disability from work, but is doing well enough that she’s keeping all the kids home for the month of June and doing daily trips to the pool along with bowling, park outings, and more. She’s also going to South Carolina to visit her brother and family for the entire month of July, hanging out on the beach and otherwise enjoying the summer. I’ll be there for the first and last week of that. I can’t wait.  The beach is addictively rich.  It’s actually been a bit surreal how nice things have been, given how bleak our family’s outlook was last spring and summer. It makes regular daily life that much sweeter. Every soccer game and trip to the ice cream shop and homemade story (I’ll have to blog about Prince and Marlena soon) and sleepy reading-on-the-couch session and trip to the pool has been made that much more sweet due to just having Anna here still.

Many of you have been extremely generous, sending us money to help pay for our household helper - Kim. Please accept our many, many thanks for this. It has allowed Anna to enjoy much more time with the kids and has also allowed us to enjoy more time with one another - we even have a date night every few weeks! Kim has helped us keep up on laundry and dishes and cooking and pickup and this has been a wonderful gift, given that Anna’s time may still be short. If the worst does come, I know that I’ll definitely look back on this spring in particular as one of the most enjoyable times of my life.

Anna Cancer

Comments (0)

Permalink

What’s That Made Out Of?

Ian is a reductionist.  He wants to know what everything is made out of.  Any of a number of recent conversations go like this:

Ian asks, “What’s that car made out of?”
I reply “Steel and plastic and rubber and things.”
“What’s steel made out of?”
“Molecules.”
“What are molecules made out of?”
“Atoms.”
“What are atoms made out of?”
“Protons, neutrons, and electrons.”
“What are protons, lupons, and flecktrons made out of?”
“Quarks and leptons.”
“What are those made out of?”
“Superstrings.”
“What are superstrings made out of?”
“Energy.”
“What is energy made out of?”
“Energy is made out of Energy, Ian.  You’ve bottomed out.”
“But what is energy made out of?!?’”
“It’s not made out of anything.  It just is.”
“Oh.”

I can’t wait until we get to spacetime.

Family

Comments (0)

Permalink

Recording with Linda Hicks at Middle Earth studio



Sure wish I could play harmonica better. Or any instrument well. I put down the best playing I’ve done to date, but it took about 50 takes and the expert punch-in skills of Michael Lewis. I really need to focus on one thing and do it well. Maybe it should well be harmonica. Except that the hotties never go for the harmonica player. But I could work toward being the next John Popper. I could certainly do far worse.

I shot the photos on the way to the studio. I love living in this area. Pop over to a friend’s house and you get Long Fields on the way.

Music

Comments (1)

Permalink

Site updates

I’m pretty much down to using Rhapsody as my only music source and player.  I finally got Rhapsody To Go to work with my Dell Axim X30 and got a spiffy new cradle thingie for my car from Gomadic.  I even took my dashboard apart and ran the cables out of sight.  So now that I can listen to any music, any time, anywhere, I wanted to show what I’ve been listening to on my blog.  Rhapsody has an RSS feed of recent album listens (mine’s here), so I tried to put it on my blog, only to run into problems integrating RSS feeds.  Turns out that WordPress has new “gadget” support, so I upgraded, picked a gadget-friendly (and very clean!) theme, and put the feed there.  After a bit of hacking on the gadget.php file to get it to show the RSS summary entry, you, dear reader, can now see what I’ve been listening to (currently enjoying Ben Harper’s roots rock).

MetaMeme
The Meme Dump

Comments (1)

Permalink